What He Wants You to Wear

RELATIONSHIPS & SEX

The outfit he wants to tear off your body.

The prevailing understanding of men is that we are primitive, simple, dumb, always horny, and would fuck a tree stump. The reality? We aren’t always horny. If you’ve been in a long-term relationship with a man, then you know that it can sometimes take some work to get our engine going (especially as we age, but more on that at another time).

Many men push this stereotype because, in their minds, it’s ‘cool’. They have succumbed to the toxic masculinity of our culture.

Men need to embrace the abolition of toxic masculinity. It leads to not only significantly better sex (imagine being able to talk about your desires with your partner *gasp*), but can also generally improve your life.

Controversial opinions abound.

A small skirt not only highlights your feminine hips but elongates your legs. We love your legs. They’re not as directly sexual as other parts of your body, but there’s an evolutionary drive within us that drives us towards your legs. Perhaps they signal good health, perhaps it’s because it's a large portion of your body that goes uncovered, or perhaps it’s simply an aesthetically pleasing part of your body.

Either way, we love it.

This is mostly about you in our clothes. This appeals to our ape-like evolutionary desire to possess you. My partner likes to play with this one. She loves to remind me that she belongs to me. She’s mine. She’s my good toy.

Men know that you are desirable. We see other men looking at you whenever we go on grocery runs. We know how desirable you look to single men because, at one point or another, we were that poor horny sap. Now that we are the lucky S.O.B. who gets to play with you, we like to feel comfortable with you in our possession.

This one is hard to explain. Maybe it has to do with how your socks highlight the shape of your legs, or how it is suggestive of what is underneath. There’s also the part where the end of the sock meets the thigh. Unf.

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